tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post8737986761157462054..comments2023-10-01T10:22:46.966-05:00Comments on Random Ramblings of an Agnostic Mom: Did Somebody Have A Bad Day At Work?Ashahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13369641837663811547noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-1587710755423064042012-01-31T12:57:58.982-06:002012-01-31T12:57:58.982-06:00Latest update: Trial postponed
http://swoknews.co...Latest update: Trial postponed<br />http://swoknews.com/main.asp?SectionID=11&SubSectionID=98&ArticleID=40701&TM=3922.503Ashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13369641837663811547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-81410237384672329592012-01-30T16:28:58.607-06:002012-01-30T16:28:58.607-06:00Trail started today. 30 Jan 2012Trail started today. 30 Jan 2012Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-11106479132574559182012-01-19T20:56:06.693-06:002012-01-19T20:56:06.693-06:00you can find information regarding the court heari...you can find information regarding the court hearing/trial at http://www.oscn.net/applications/oscn/GetCaseInformation.asp?submitted=true&viewtype=caseGeneral&casemasterID=343447&db=Comanche. His trial is set for January 30th.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-77973410798254100612012-01-18T22:54:46.630-06:002012-01-18T22:54:46.630-06:00I also found your story when I did a google search...I also found your story when I did a google search on the case. It's so sad to see that your son had to go through such a horrific event, especially after reflecting on what Malik probably meant when he said "Happy Birthday", after hearing of his sad death. The horrific living being, who deserves to die by means of horrific pain and cruelty that he put Malik through, is on trial as we speak. The worst of it is he has no remorse for what he did. I was glad to see that his charges were changed to 1st degree murder and I pray that justice is served him by being sentenced to death. I believe the trial started on January 13th, and you can track the case here: http://www.oscn.net/applications/oscn/GetCaseInformation.asp?submitted=true&viewtype=caseGeneral&casemasterID=343447&db=Comanche. Looks like the trial is ongoing based on the update posted today. On that same site, you can search cases and find updates on the mother, of whom is set to stand trial on May 11th, and she currently is out on $50,000 bail.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-89771898314088182032011-12-29T13:06:43.247-06:002011-12-29T13:06:43.247-06:00I found your story when I was doing a google searc...I found your story when I was doing a google search to see what had happened to the stepfather. I had a pleasure of knowing Malik and his younger siblings. He was one of the sweetest kids I had ever met, and I cried for days when I found out about him. Your story about your son really touched my heart reading it. And brought back the memories of Malik, and I hope that your son is doing ok with the year anniversary of his death just passing. Do you know what came of the trial? I searched and can't find any information on it except that the trial was suppose to happen in march.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-2131812236221943822011-12-24T12:06:26.625-06:002011-12-24T12:06:26.625-06:00I also knew this family while they lived in Kentuc...I also knew this family while they lived in Kentucky. I've been trying to find out what, if anything, is happening in the trial. Do you know of any new developments?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-52721991392517189382011-11-17T13:48:43.113-06:002011-11-17T13:48:43.113-06:00I knew this family and the mom loved her kids. We ...I knew this family and the mom loved her kids. We lived in KY together and Malik came over and played with my son. There are two sides to every story and in the middle there is the truth. Please pray for Denise, this is harder than you know on her. I know her two younger kids and they are sweet and were well loved. My son and I will remember Malik every year. Some who posted are not Christians and I can understand your lack of compassion, but remember your anger is the same kind of anger that kills. You are no different. Malik was a Christian, he and my son talked about God all the time. It's a year later and your rantings and anger can't bring him back. Instead, have compassion on those left behind. They are going through it bad enough.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-22349514745338386572011-03-16T14:26:44.858-05:002011-03-16T14:26:44.858-05:00OMG, this story of yours is so heart breaking. I f...OMG, this story of yours is so heart breaking. I followed Malik's story because of just curiosity. I do foster care and have had abused children in my home. I was an abused child myself. Of course this caught my attention. It never dawned on me that I freaking knew the stepfather or I had met him. He was new to the place I worked at. He was very polite, very professional. I even saw him and his family at the tree lighting ceremony on post. I would have never suspected such a horrible thing!! He had barely been here a month, well shoot, two weeks. I did not put it together till I got to work and overheard conversation about the man in that unit beat his son to death and it hit me, I just read that story!! I cried just thinking about what Malik went through and over not eating lunch, are u kidding me??? A wooden cutting board, I dropped one on my foot and cried like a little girl it hurt so bad and it was an accident. I can't fathom anyone being hit with one, let alone a 10 year old. and on top of that, his mother did it too? Just sickening. My heart aches for your son and for all Malik's classmates who felt this loss. You made a comment that Malik told your son his family play fought, man, brought back so many memories of the times I made up excuses for my dad (who I found out later was my step dad). We have to be more alert to certain signs because unfortunately signs are out there when it comes to abuse!!! I love reading your stuff, I really do because you say it straight and that is what people need to hear. I dont believe in revenge, but sorry, death penalty is worthy of this one. This angel was a gift to his mother, his siblings, his family and yes even his step father. So young and now for what, his life is over. Tell your son I think Malik is his guardian angel, someone to watch over him and maybe even to let your son know Malik is at peace now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-71849152302773746352011-03-10T04:53:51.583-06:002011-03-10T04:53:51.583-06:00Yes, i understand what you are going through. My g...Yes, i understand what you are going through. My godson and Malik were best friends here in Germany. Lancey used to carry them out for "Man Day" and i know they had fun. When the news hit us, my friend was so shocked, to give her son in the hands of a murderer....but it was not that way here. I do not understand it either and my godson heard us talking about his death, but since today, he refuse to speak about Malik. Maybe it is different, because it has been a while, since they left. I will be praying for you and your family, for the pain and the anger to be heal!Monikanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-33379389734518908972011-03-09T22:46:02.437-06:002011-03-09T22:46:02.437-06:00@Monika I never had the pleasure of meeting Malik...@Monika I never had the pleasure of meeting Malik for myself. We lived just around the corner from him and he was never allowed to come play. My anger comes from the pain that I have seen my son go through over this. Although his struggle is minor compared to what Malik had to endure, it all falls in the hands of the Ray's. Like I said in the post, there was no way to prepare my child for this and I have watched him struggle to understand something that there is no explaination for.Ashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13369641837663811547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-79057387733486047742011-03-09T14:24:09.123-06:002011-03-09T14:24:09.123-06:00Hello Asha, of course i respect your opinion. It i...Hello Asha, of course i respect your opinion. It is for you, to speak the way you want to.<br />And what i wrote, is more for me, than for others to take it personal. I have to watch my own thoughts and actions, because when i stand before the father, iam held accountable for me, not for others. But what i know, when i walk in anger or hate towards another person, it will affect my life and the life of my family, too. And no Lancey is worth that. That is all iam saying. And not, that what they did was right. It was surely not. I loved Malik too and i miss him.Monikanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-82548591168872303622011-03-08T22:33:09.767-06:002011-03-08T22:33:09.767-06:00@Monika While I respect your views, I expect resp...@Monika While I respect your views, I expect respect of mine. I believe we are all judged by our peers and with that said, I believe I have the right to judge who I please. I do not and will not take pity on Denise...ever. If God can forgive her, shame on him. I will not nor will I ever forgive Lancey Ray for his monstrocities. PERIOD. Judge me how you'd like.Ashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13369641837663811547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-60212886878646686362011-03-08T15:24:42.238-06:002011-03-08T15:24:42.238-06:00I knew Malik from the time in Germany, before they...I knew Malik from the time in Germany, before they left to the states. When my husband and I got married in 2003, Malik was holding our wedding rings, he was 3 years old. We only wanted him to do it, because he was just so adorable. Iam a strong believer and Malik is in a better place, God has taken him away, so that nobody can ever hurt him again. I got to know Denise as a virtious woman of God and she was very loving towards Malik. This times were, when she was a single mum. When she met her husband, they left soon to the states and we only had rare e-mail contact. In her mails everything was always perfect and great. The woman i got to know in Germany, has nothing to do with the woman she turned into. But only God has the right to charge her, not we! We do not have a right. If he can forgive, what about us? Who are we, to throw the first stone?Monikanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-65123870845517958432011-03-02T22:56:31.709-06:002011-03-02T22:56:31.709-06:00@Anon. The prelimanary hearing was supposed to be...@Anon. The prelimanary hearing was supposed to be today but I haven't been able to find anything about it.Ashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13369641837663811547noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-88174679886304949292011-03-02T21:19:52.657-06:002011-03-02T21:19:52.657-06:00My husband was in his unit at Fort Sill, said he w...My husband was in his unit at Fort Sill, said he was always a creepy one but you never could imagine that someone could do such a horrible things to a child. I hope his wife is convicted as well, she admitted to police she had beat him in the past. Just horrible and saddening a child dies every day like thisAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-57139955176239838762011-02-08T20:21:00.427-06:002011-02-08T20:21:00.427-06:00I'll never, never understand how anyone could ...I'll never, never understand how anyone could do this to a child. Especially their own child. It saddens and sickens me. It's stories like these that make me support the death penalty. A child has no way out and has unconditional love for their parents. I don't understand it, I doubt I ever will.Angie Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11875965090243148074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-36277602100291677902011-02-03T12:26:08.931-06:002011-02-03T12:26:08.931-06:00This breaks my heart. Thank you for your post and ...This breaks my heart. Thank you for your post and for reminding all of us to look a little closer at the child next to us, to appriciate a little more what we have, and to pray that our children never have to witness abuse.<br /><br />Thanks for stopping by my blog.<br /><i>-Buffi</i><br /><a href="http://www.wonderfullydysfunctional.com/" rel="nofollow">My Wonderfully Dysfunctional Blog</a>Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04225509798789205842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-514001041213119922011-02-03T03:46:09.262-06:002011-02-03T03:46:09.262-06:00That's just horrible! I just can't unders...That's just horrible! I just can't understand what can drive someone to do something so absolutely hideous. You've done a really good job writing about it, I don't think I could...it's so insane.Mother Theresahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09648404612737553605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-79834886043858348762011-02-02T21:45:45.755-06:002011-02-02T21:45:45.755-06:00So difficult to even think about.
Now following f...So difficult to even think about.<br /><br />Now following from http://www.babydealsdujour.com/blog<br /><br />We track all of the daily baby deals in real-time. Would love for you to stop by and follow back!BabyDealsDujourhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03340785234670175540noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-44660824820514515352011-02-02T21:23:18.293-06:002011-02-02T21:23:18.293-06:00Oh. My. God. Gotta go hug my babies now. stopped b...Oh. My. God. Gotta go hug my babies now. stopped by from the hop.lovinangelshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06434557517059953281noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-85895371272139418092011-02-02T19:29:16.503-06:002011-02-02T19:29:16.503-06:00It just hurts to read that--I mean, as an adult, i...It just hurts to read that--I mean, as an adult, it's hard to make sense of something so senseless, but for children, it's just completely incomprehensible.Kiersten @ Oh My Veggieshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05879131170308980919noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-81295281479046276472011-02-02T19:01:41.807-06:002011-02-02T19:01:41.807-06:00great post! what a terrible tragedy. and I'm w...great post! what a terrible tragedy. and I'm with you on the energy moving on, maybe he is staying close to your son for awhile because he felt a kind soul in him. <br /><br />Thanks for linking up at Tuesdays Gone I'm now followingAmethystmoonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08281654875299175221noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-29168928620672153762011-02-02T16:32:57.046-06:002011-02-02T16:32:57.046-06:00This just breaks my heart. I am so sorry that y...This just breaks my heart. I am so sorry that y'all had to deal with this. :( <br /><br />Brea<br />www.becomingbrea.com<br /><br />PS: Following you.Breahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14253977796019839573noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-46225052322245947452011-02-02T11:51:03.378-06:002011-02-02T11:51:03.378-06:00So sad!! I can't even think how his mother did...So sad!! I can't even think how his mother didn't do anything at all !!!!!<br /><br />New follower from blog hop.<br /><br />Hope you wil follow me too @ http://masalabowl.blogspot.com/Sumanahttp://masalabowl.blogspot.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4258057679042810816.post-8926850084832043672011-02-01T15:54:59.671-06:002011-02-01T15:54:59.671-06:00:(
How can a parent do that to a helpless kid.. I ...:(<br />How can a parent do that to a helpless kid.. I hate it that his mother let her be beaten and all.. <br /><br />I feel a goosebump when you said that Malik gave your son pop corn and it's not his birthday and all... :)Kamilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06090090416758420030noreply@blogger.com